Life isn’t always easy.
King Solomon wisely said
Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble.
He also said
For lack of wood the fire goes out,
and where there is no whisperer, quarreling ceases.
Don’t throw anything on that fire!
Keep yourself out of trouble while your adversary
(or boss, client, neighbor, spouse, child, service-provider …)
wonders about what you didn’t say!